So, to catch up. Rachel's birthday was on the 31st of December. For Christmas I got her a spa, manicure, massage package at a spa close to her home, where her mother also has a gift card. When she decides to use the package with her mother, I hope to be able to put my credit card at a local Italian restaurant so she can have a day of female bonding with one of the people she loves the most. For her birthday I got her some jewelry. She recently bought herself a couple of inexpensive rings, I made a mental note of the style and the stone, and then bought her a ring from Jared's to upgrade her purchase. She had no idea, which was fun, but I had one surprise left. Earlier in the week I made a reservation for 20 at Maggiano's downtown, but she was under the impression it was just a quiet date for the both of us. Needless to say she was surprised when we showed up and her family, including 12 more of her friends were present. It was a successful week of surprises and presents for her. She thanked me a ton, said she was too spoiled, and gave me lots of hugs and kisses.

Ever since we had a long talk, about four weeks ago or so, our relationship has felt entirely different. Even Rachel agrees. We both seem to be more conscious of the other and willing to work on what we need to make the relationship amazing. I'm very happy.